Kindness
begets kindness
When I was young, I lived in a small
village in Melaka. Mine was a terrace house in a row of shophouses. The spirit
of neighbourliness was very strong then. There was no such thing as locking the
doors of our houses by day or night.
The village had a variety of trades
to serve the needs of the villagers. There was a barber, tailor, coffee shop
owner, grocer, baker, electrician, plumber and so on. All of us were quite poor
by today's standards but we got by. However, one family which could be
considered as living a marginal existence was the Lim family living in the
bicycle shop opposite our dwelling.
Mr Lim, the bicycle mechanic, had a
large brood of children - twelve to be exact. The joke amongst the neighbours
was that he was aiming to form a football team among his children. However,
seriously speaking, it was no joke for him trying to feed his growing children
daily.
My mother was a kind-hearted soul.
Often, she would remark that his children were dressed in ragged clothes and
looked malnourished. My family was relatively better off in the village and my
father was the headman. My mother would bring over whatever food we could spare
to our neighbours. On occasions when there was leftover food from village
weddings or festivals, my father would direct me to bring these to Mr. Lim. I
did not mind visiting the Lim's bicycle shop as I had an interest in bicycles.
I remember one particular year when
times were very hard. The economy was doing very badly. Even my family had to
make do with two meals a day. Lunch was dispensed with. We stopped the practice
of giving food to Mr. Lim. One day, I noticed my mother looking troubled. She
had learned that the Lim family had not been eating for the past two days.
There and then, she decided to sacrifice a portion of our meals to the family.
Despite the protests from my brothers and sisters that we too were hungry, she
kept on doing the kind act of giving them a portion of our food from then on.
Fortunately, the lean spell did not last long, and the children in our family
resumed our three meals a day again.
I shared a room with my brothers
overlooking the bicycle shop. I was interested in the repair of bicycles and
would often stare out of the window to see Mr. Lim hard at work. As time went
on, I noticed Mr. Lim looking more cheerful. The number of customers at his
shop had increased steadily. Soon, he was selling many shiny new bicycles.
The eldest son of Mr. Lim was the
head prefect of our primary school. He often helped his father in his work.
This boy, Tian Beng, was very good with his hands. He proved very popular with
his customers. It was he who expanded his father's business after he dropped
out of school when his father needed his help in their growing bicycle
business. Tian Beng started a motorcycle repairing service to add on to his
father's trade. Business at his shop took off like a rocket as Japanese bikes
were the rage then as they were very useful and popular for transport.
It was at this time that my father's
business took a turn for the worse. My father was a provision shop owner and he
trusted many people readily. One day, his senior assistant ran off with a
substantial amount of the shop's earnings. During that time, my father's health
was also deteriorating. We were at our wits' end, perplexed by the mysterious
illness he was suffering from. My father then sold our family car to pay off
the mounting bills.
They say that one good deed deserves
another. Mr. Lim, our neighbour, came to learn of our plight. In spite of my
father's protests, he stepped in to help. He stated simply that it was his turn
to repay the kindness that my father had shown to him in the past.
Through his connections, Mr. Lim
arranged for my father to consult a famous Chinese physician in Chinatown. Not
only was this doctor's diagnosis of my father's medical condition accurate, he
was able to cure my father. My father's health steadily improved. However,
because of my father's lack of attention to his provision shop, business
floundered.
Again
Mr. Lim became our good Samaritan. He arranged for a loan for my father's
business. When he also learned that my brother and I had stopped schooling
because we could not afford the fees, he would have none of this. He told us
that we should not give up our education as we were among the top pupils in the
school. He then arranged to finance our education as long as we needed it.
Suffice it to say that my father's
business recovered the next year. My father is now the proud owner of the
village mini-market. Mr. Lim has expanded his business too. He now has a car
showroom in town. Whenever my parents meet up with Mr. Lim, they would thank
him for his past help. He would just shrug off their thanks and say simply that
he was merely repaying a kindness.
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